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PODCAST: On Birth Control and Lust Control, featuring Patrick Weaver

PODCAST: On Birth Control and Lust Control, featuring Patrick Weaver

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 17, 2022 | Podcasts

It’s time for another educational podcast–this time on contraception! Plus we talk with Patrick Weaver about the recent #DearBrian dust-up, where that pastor from Utah told women to cover up and not show skin on Instagram, like pictures with their newborn...
Keith’s Manifesto: Guys, It’s Time to Jump Out of the Boiling Water

Keith’s Manifesto: Guys, It’s Time to Jump Out of the Boiling Water

by Keith Gregoire | Jan 26, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Our series this month is “putting Christ back in Christian marriage advice.”  When I told Keith that, he said that there’s something he’s been wanting say for a while, but it would be intense. I told him to go for it. And so I’ve named...
What Does Treating Women with Respect Look Like?

What Does Treating Women with Respect Look Like?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 21, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Can we stop objectifying women and treat us like whole people, made in the image of God? We’ve been talking about putting the “Christ” back in Christian marriage this month, and part of that is by treating women as the Imago Dei (made in the image of...
Poll: Women More Likely to Be Sexually Harrassed at Church than at Work

Poll: Women More Likely to Be Sexually Harrassed at Church than at Work

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 14, 2021 | Research

Do women feel safer at church or at work? Over the last few weeks the “lust” debate, for lack of a better word, has been heating up on Facebook and Instagram. I’ve been sharing that presenting the idea that lust is every man’s battle is...
My Take on Josh Duggar’s Guilty Verdict: Amnon and Tamar Replayed

My Take on Josh Duggar’s Guilty Verdict: Amnon and Tamar Replayed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 9, 2021 | Faith

Josh Duggar has just been found guilty of possessing and receiving child sexual abuse materials. On a personal level, I am glad that the guilty verdict came down. But I’d like to talk about some wider issues in the evangelical church that this case revealed. For...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!