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Real Men are not Bullies: Let’s Talk about the Church’s View of Masculinity

Real Men are not Bullies: Let’s Talk about the Church’s View of Masculinity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 30, 2022 | Men's Corner

Every now and then my husband has something he really needs to get off of his chest, and this is one of those days! So I’m going to turn the blog over to him today, because he’d like to talk about masculinity. We’ll be talking about this on...
BARE MARRIAGE PODCAST: Why Do Christian Books Make Men Sound So Fragile?

BARE MARRIAGE PODCAST: Why Do Christian Books Make Men Sound So Fragile?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2021 | Podcasts

It’s time for our Start Your Engines podcast, and today we’re asking if Christian resources are causing male fragility–or at least making male fragility sound widespread. Our belief is that men and women are equally made in the image of God, and one...
On Alpha Males and Beta Males and Getting a Mate

On Alpha Males and Beta Males and Getting a Mate

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2021 | Sex

Do alpha males always get the girl? The comic book character Archie was always your typical beta. So was Richie Cunningham from Happy Days, while Fonzie played more the alpha. And girls prefer bad boys! Don’t they? Well, maybe the whole alpha and beta thing...
What Attributes Make the Sexually Healthy Man?

What Attributes Make the Sexually Healthy Man?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 6, 2021 | Sex

How can we define a sexually healthy man? I’ve just spent a year thinking about what it takes to be a sexually healthy woman–after doing our survey of over 20,000 women last winter! You’ll see all about it in our upcoming book The Great Sex Rescue....
What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

What Happens When We Get Gender Stereotypes Wrong?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Yesterday we posted an important podcast about the idea that “men need respect and women need love”, and that these should be unconditional. It’s blown up on Twitter, and I’ve had so much feedback it’s hard to keep track. But a few things...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!