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PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate

PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 15, 2019 | Podcasts

Are yoga pants actually pants? Maybe that’s the wrong question! It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all...
Modesty Revisited, Wedding Vows, and More!

Modesty Revisited, Wedding Vows, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 11, 2019 | Marriage

Do we look at modesty all wrong? Is orgasm really necessary? It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! And we’re dealing with a whole lot of different things today! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll...
My 40% Modesty Rule: A Better Way to Look at How to Dress

My 40% Modesty Rule: A Better Way to Look at How to Dress

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 25, 2019 | Life

What does it mean to be modest? What are proper modesty rules? I’ve been talking all month about how the message that “men lust all the time so women have to have sex to stop men from lusting” is so dangerous and unbiblical. Yet in far too many...
10 Trends in the Purity Culture that I’m Watching

10 Trends in the Purity Culture that I’m Watching

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 20, 2018 | Sex

The purity culture has been with us for a while–but some super interesting things are happening. And I want to share with you 10 trends that I’m keeping a watch on. But first–what is the purity culture? It’s hard to define exactly, but...
Why “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block” is A Really Bad Modesty Message

Why “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block” is A Really Bad Modesty Message

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 23, 2017 | Faith

How many times have you heard calls for women to dress modestly in terms of “you don’t want to be a stumbling block”? Phew. This has been a tiring week on the blog–and I knew it would be. I’ve been talking about how the idea that all men...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!