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PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 4, 2024 | Libido, Podcasts

“So you think it’s okay if women just don’t have sex, then?” Whenever we talk about how sex should be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and that the obligation sex message is toxic, the reply we get is something along these...
What If Sex Is Like Going out to Dinner?

What If Sex Is Like Going out to Dinner?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 11, 2024 | Making Sex Feel Good

This week The Good Guy’s Guide and Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex Turn 2! Two years ago, these two books launched. I wrote the original Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex in 2012, and Zondervan contracted with Keith and me to write a companion guy’s version, to come out...
Dear Great Sex Rescue Critics: Here’s What We Actually Teach

Dear Great Sex Rescue Critics: Here’s What We Actually Teach

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 20, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Are we ignoring the Bible when it comes to sex? As Bare Marriage and our books are getting better known, it’s inevitable that pastors and authors who are wedded to the view of sex that centers on male entitlement and female objectification will start to push back....
How The Great Sex Rescue Changed This Couple’s Sex Life

How The Great Sex Rescue Changed This Couple’s Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 19, 2023 | Libido

Everyday I get emails, comments, and DMs about how our books are changing lives.  Before we wrote The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better I had written several other books. But the reaction is so starkly different. I’m hearing over and over again about lives...
How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2023 | Libido

Being the higher drive spouse can be really frustrating. You want to connect with your spouse, and you want to have a passionate marriage, but it seems like your spouse doesn’t share those same desires. And that can feel like a rejection. This is the last post...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!