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PODCAST: We Have a Newborn. He Wants an XBox. Plus More Reader Questions!

PODCAST: We Have a Newborn. He Wants an XBox. Plus More Reader Questions!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 10, 2019 | Podcasts

Does sex have to die when life gets busy? We’re in the middle of a series this month talking about the different stages of sex in marriage, and we launched it last week with the “Figuring Things Out” stage. This week we’re moving on to the next...
Why (Older) Women Often Long for More Adventure in Bed

Why (Older) Women Often Long for More Adventure in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2018 | Sex

The image of the older woman who is sexually confident and wants more adventure in bed is quite common in our culture. Think of the “cougar” stereotype, that older woman who is looking for a younger man to satisfy her. Recently, when I was flying back from...
Reader Question of the Week: Sex is So BORING!

Reader Question of the Week: Sex is So BORING!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 8, 2013 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good, Sex

What do you do when sex gets boring? Every weekend I try to answer a Reader Question. Here’s a woman writing that sex is boring, her marriage is boring, and she wonders how to get the excitement back: We have been married for 3 years and we have a 2 year old. We...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!