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PODCAST: What does the Plight of Missionary Kids Teach Us about The Church?

PODCAST: What does the Plight of Missionary Kids Teach Us about The Church?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 4, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We need to listen to the stories of missionary kids. Holly Berkley Fletcher released an amazing book called Missionary Kids that I read all in one sitting. I was riveted.  Holly grew up as a missionary kid. And she interviewed a whole bunch of missionary kids, some...
PODCAST: Are Soul ties Real? And is the Purity Culture Belief Harmful or Helpful?

PODCAST: Are Soul ties Real? And is the Purity Culture Belief Harmful or Helpful?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 29, 2025 | Podcasts

The iea of soul ties was commonly taught in purity culture. Basically, it boils down to the thought that when you have sex with someone, your souls are joined in the spiritual realm. If you have sex with someone that’s not your spouse, then, part of you will...
Her Cherch Merch That Makes You Happy!

Her Cherch Merch That Makes You Happy!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Let’s celebrate being a woman who loves God! I’ve been following the Her Cherch account on Instagram for a while, and she has awesome cartoons that cut to the heart of so much of what we talk about here on Bare Marriage! The artist is Marcia Takasaki, and...
A Letter of Apology to Girls in My Youth Group About Purity Culture

A Letter of Apology to Girls in My Youth Group About Purity Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 16, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Recently in our Patreon group, a member posted a letter that she’s sending out to the girls (now young women) in a youth group she used to lead, apologizing for teaching toxic things. I thought it was so wonderful I asked if I could run it here. I just want to say:...
Revisiting “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block”

Revisiting “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 14, 2024 | Parenting Teens

Are women responsible for keeping men from lusting? There’s a chilling and glaring error in complementarian theology; men are supposed to lead women and children – both at home and in the church (with many teachers going so far as to say that women cannot even...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!