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PODCAST: The Sex Talk You Never Got feat. Sam Jolman

PODCAST: The Sex Talk You Never Got feat. Sam Jolman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 6, 2024 | For Men, Podcasts

What if purity culture didn’t just steal sexual health from women, but stole it from men too? What does it mean for a man to have healthy sexuality? Today licensed counselor Sam Jolman joins us for The Sex Talk You Never Got. He’s got an amazing new book out...
Is It Wrong to Be Attracted to the Person You’re Going to Marry?

Is It Wrong to Be Attracted to the Person You’re Going to Marry?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 5, 2024 | Preparing for Marriage

Is sexual attraction outside of marriage a sin? Honestly, this is a strange discussion, but I’m not the one who started it. Jared Moore, an SBC pastor, started a kerfuffle on Twitter last year when he said that even being attracted to someone that you’re...
PODCAST: The Backlash Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner

PODCAST: The Backlash Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 18, 2024 | Podcasts

How’s purity culture doing one year since She Deserves Better launched? Today we’re celebrating one year since our book She Deserves Better hit the market! Based on our survey of 7000 predominantly evangelical women, looking at how their experiences in...
Virginity Is Not a Synonym for Sexual integrity

Virginity Is Not a Synonym for Sexual integrity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 17, 2024 | Preparing for Marriage

Have we missed the boat on sexual integrity? I was hoping to do a series on honoring God with a new sexual ethic, but I overpromised. Keith and I have our marriage book due in March, and I’m frantically trying to write it, and I spent so much of Monday and Tuesday of...
Purity Culture Is No Laughing Matter

Purity Culture Is No Laughing Matter

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

So the Babylon Bee thinks purity culture backlash is worth mocking. For those who don’t know, the Babylon Bee is supposed to be a Christian satire site, like the Onion, where they have satire news stories. I must admit I used to think they were quite funny. As one of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!