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Reader Questions: Am I a Lesbian, Why Do I Hate Sex, and More!

Reader Questions: Am I a Lesbian, Why Do I Hate Sex, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 17, 2018 | Sex

Am I a lesbian? Is oral sex really okay? How do I trust my husband again? On Mondays I like to run reader questions and take a stab at answering them, but it’s the end of the year pretty much and I have such a huge backlog that I thought I’d try to tackle...
Reader Question: How Do I NOT Feel Guilty for Wanting Sex?

Reader Question: How Do I NOT Feel Guilty for Wanting Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 10, 2018 | Libido

What do you do if you want sex–and your spouse doesn’t? How do you NOT feel guilty for wanting sex? Every Monday I like to try to take a stab at answering a reader question. Sometimes I’ll do it in video form (I hope to do one next week in video!),...
Reader Question: My Husband Refuses to Talk About Important Stuff

Reader Question: My Husband Refuses to Talk About Important Stuff

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 19, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do when your husband refuses to talk about serious marriage issues? We’re talking about intimacy this month on Bare Marriage, and over the last week I’ve had a number of people write in about husbands who refuse to talk and refuse to engage...
Ask Sheila: I Don’t Want to Have Kids with My Husband!

Ask Sheila: I Don’t Want to Have Kids with My Husband!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 15, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

What if you just don’t want to have kids with your husband? On Mondays I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and lately I’ve started doing that through video, with links for even more posts that you can read on the same subject!...
Reader Question: How Do I Deal with Post-Sex Blues?

Reader Question: How Do I Deal with Post-Sex Blues?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 23, 2018 | Libido

How do you deal with the post-sex blues, or getting depressed right after sex? We’re supposed to feel euphoria after we have sex. Our bodies release oxytocin, the bonding hormone. We’re flooded with these relaxed and happy feelings. Everything is right...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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