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Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2020 | Sex

When people write in with sex problems, one of the hardest things is that the problem is often not just one thing. It would be wonderful if, when people have problems with sex, it were one simple thing, like: “Our relationship is great and everything is...
Do You Put Your Wife’s Needs First? Plus 2 Extra Ways to Boost Her Self-Image! Comments of the Week

Do You Put Your Wife’s Needs First? Plus 2 Extra Ways to Boost Her Self-Image! Comments of the Week

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 21, 2020 | Marriage

I am personally very glad this week is over! I’ve (Rebecca) been looking over the blog since Sheila (my mom) has been on her vacation (they are having a lovely time, by the way!). And although I get to work from home and my job is really not that hard since mom...
Women Deserve Orgasm, Too: It’s Not Selfish for a Woman to Want to Orgasm During Intercourse

Women Deserve Orgasm, Too: It’s Not Selfish for a Woman to Want to Orgasm During Intercourse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 5, 2019 | Sex

Do women deserve to orgasm when making love to their husbands? Is it reasonable to expect that when a couple is making love, both of them should receive pleasure? I normally do a top 10 post on Tuesdays, and I had something all ready to go, but there was a discussion...
Reader Question: Help! My Husband Wants Sex Everyday!

Reader Question: Help! My Husband Wants Sex Everyday!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 12, 2019 | Libido

What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn’t interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it? On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn’t done an Ask...
How to Be a Generous Lover: Husband’s Edition

How to Be a Generous Lover: Husband’s Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

How can a man be a generous lover? Last week we talked about what it took for a wife to be a generous lover. And all month we’ve been looking at what it means for sex to be a mutual experience–where it’s meant to be good for both of you, where both...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!