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Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

When we’re trying to get out of the pit our sex life is in–sometimes we’re the one who needs to grab the ladder. We’re near the end of our series on getting our sex life out of the pit that one–or both–of us have dug for ourselves....
Reader Question: Do I Have to Have Sex or Do Sexual Things if Sex Grosses Me Out?

Reader Question: Do I Have to Have Sex or Do Sexual Things if Sex Grosses Me Out?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2019 | Libido

What do you do if sex is very distasteful, and you’d rather not be sexual in your marriage at all? Last Friday I wrote a post about how withholding sex in your marriage is not a good idea (it’s better to deal with WHY you’re withholding sex). And...
Is It Okay to Withhold Sex in Marriage? Let’s Rethink Sexless Marriages

Is It Okay to Withhold Sex in Marriage? Let’s Rethink Sexless Marriages

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 15, 2019 | Libido

Is withholding sex in marriage okay? If you’re not a sexual person, or if you don’t think your spouse deserves sex, is it okay to cut them off from sex? A lot of people who are on this blog are desperate because their spouses have sex with them less than...
Reader Question: My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex Anymore

Reader Question: My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex Anymore

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 22, 2018 | Libido, Resolving Conflict

What do you do when your husband is not interested in you sexually? Last week on the blog we dealt with some pretty big marriage issues–infidelity, how to talk to your kids when you’re having problems, and more. This week I actually want to talk about some...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!