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TALKING TO KIDS ABOUT PUBERTY SERIES: What Did You Think When You First Learned About Sex?

TALKING TO KIDS ABOUT PUBERTY SERIES: What Did You Think When You First Learned About Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 22, 2018 | Parenting Teens

It’s time to talk about sex, puberty, and growing up! I am so excited to announce, after a whole year of waiting, that the boys’ version of our Whole Story Puberty Course is here! Last year we launched The Whole Story: Not So Awkward Talks about Sex,...
Wifey Wednesday: Is It So Bad if Your Kids Know You “Do It”?

Wifey Wednesday: Is It So Bad if Your Kids Know You “Do It”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 6, 2017 | gsr, Parenting Young Kids

Will the world come to an end if your kids know you have sex? It’s Wednesday, the day when we always talk marriage here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum! And for the last few weeks my girls and I have been working on a really exciting project. We’ve been...
Why “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block” is A Really Bad Modesty Message

Why “Don’t Be a Stumbling Block” is A Really Bad Modesty Message

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 23, 2017 | Faith

How many times have you heard calls for women to dress modestly in terms of “you don’t want to be a stumbling block”? Phew. This has been a tiring week on the blog–and I knew it would be. I’ve been talking about how the idea that all men...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!