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6 Reasons We Should Stop Accusing Girls of Dressing Like Prostitutes

6 Reasons We Should Stop Accusing Girls of Dressing Like Prostitutes

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2023 | Parenting Teens

When we talk about modesty, I often see commenters saying, “But she’s dressing like a ho.” Whenever the talk comes up about how girls shouldn’t be held responsible for boys’ and men’s thoughts, inevitably someone will say,...
What If All the Men Around You Have Lust Problems?

What If All the Men Around You Have Lust Problems?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 24, 2023 | Pornography

Please hear me on this: Not all men have lust problems. In fact, while it may be common, it is not what you’d call “normal”, where we should just expect it to happen, and if guys don’t have lust problems, they’re unusual unicorns. Lust is...
PODCAST: Why Are Women Supporting the Modesty Message?

PODCAST: Why Are Women Supporting the Modesty Message?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 23, 2023 | Podcasts

Consent and Modesty: Let’s talk about two ways the church often gives terrible messaging to teens–and why Today on the podcast we’re looking at two more aspects of our upcoming book She Deserves Better, which launches on April 18! We’re going...
How Did We Think Calling 8-Year-Olds’ Bellies “Intoxicating” Was Okay?

How Did We Think Calling 8-Year-Olds’ Bellies “Intoxicating” Was Okay?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2023 | Parenting Young Kids

Why did the evangelical church not recognize pedophilic language? Last week on the Bare Marriage podcast we told you about Dannah Gresh’s Secret Keeper Girl curriculum, popular during purity culture, which told 8-12 year-old girls that their bellies were...
Is It True That All Guys Can’t Help But Imagine You Naked?

Is It True That All Guys Can’t Help But Imagine You Naked?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Research

Do boys have to fight constantly not to picture girls naked? Yesterday on the Bare Marriage podcast (episode 183) we walked you through some of the problems that we discovered with the modesty messages that were given to girls as teens, especially during the purity...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!