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PODCAST: How Submission “Cults” Groom for Abuse–One Woman’s Story

PODCAST: How Submission “Cults” Groom for Abuse–One Woman’s Story

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 11, 2024 | Abuse, Podcasts

When you’ve been raised to submit, will you even recognize abuse? With thanks to the NIV Kingdom Girls Bible for sponsoring this podcast! Today on the Bare Marriage podcast, we’ve got such a compelling interview with Lauren Rose from Called to Peace...
When Unequal = Equal: How Complementarianism changes the Meaning of Words

When Unequal = Equal: How Complementarianism changes the Meaning of Words

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 8, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Separate but equal has been tried and failed. So why is the church still using the same arguments about gender? It’s International Women’s Day, and I thought I’d sum up some of what we said in a podcast yesterday, combined with some great input you...
PODCAST: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism?

PODCAST: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 7, 2024 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Who is really a complementarian? Just when we think we’re finished arguing something, another critique pops up. And honestly–we had SUCH FUN doing this podcast! Keith and I planned it for several days beforehand, going over all the arguments we wanted to...
When Male Hierarchy Teaching Turns Good Men Bad

When Male Hierarchy Teaching Turns Good Men Bad

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 21, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Not everyone who ends up dominating their wife is actually an abuser at heart.  What they are doing may be abusive; the same dynamics may be at play, and the same harm may be being done. But it doesn’t always come from the same place. Over and over again since we have...
The Problems with Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth (with Download)

The Problems with Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth (with Download)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 9, 2024 | For Women, Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!