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One Woman Shares How Being Spanked as a Child Affected Her Sexually

One Woman Shares How Being Spanked as a Child Affected Her Sexually

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 24, 2022 | Parenting Young Kids, Sex

The harm from spanking doesn’t always come from the spanking being done in anger, or by terrible parents. Sometimes the harm comes from good parents who spanked “in love”, exactly how the church taught them to. When I wrote about the harms from...
Biblical Counseling and Horrid Perspectives on Abuse: How Did Things Go So Wrong?

Biblical Counseling and Horrid Perspectives on Abuse: How Did Things Go So Wrong?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 11, 2022 | Abuse

7 Questions to Ask to Vet Your Counselor

7 Questions to Ask to Vet Your Counselor

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 10, 2021 | Resolving Conflict

How do you find a good counselor when you need to seek help for marriage issues?  Sheila here! I found Sarah Allman on Instagram, where we interacted about the vital importance of vetting counselors before you go to see one. This is something I’d been...
Why I’m Rejoicing and Lamenting at the Same Time–Wanna Join Me?

Why I’m Rejoicing and Lamenting at the Same Time–Wanna Join Me?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 18, 2020 | Research

The Bible tells us to rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Well, I’m doing both, so I guess you all better get busy! 🙂 This isn’t going to be a long post today, but instead more of an update. It’s Victoria Day here in Canada,...
Can You Divorce for Abuse? Our Tendency to Treat Adultery as Worse than Abuse

Can You Divorce for Abuse? Our Tendency to Treat Adultery as Worse than Abuse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 3, 2020 | Abuse

Unfortunately (in my mind), there has not been consensus in the Christian world on whether or not a person is biblically justified to divorce in cases of abuse. It’s long been held that you can divorce for adultery, but not for abuse (I explained why I think...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!