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A Book List to Help You with Emotional Maturity

A Book List to Help You with Emotional Maturity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 17, 2020 | Books

It’s time for a resource list of books to help you grow more emotionally mature! We’re in the middle of our emotional maturity series, and yesterday I was talking about 6 ways to help you grow more emotionally mature and more responsible. I promised that...
PODCAST: When Does Explicit Sex Advice Become Gross?

PODCAST: When Does Explicit Sex Advice Become Gross?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 16, 2020 | Podcasts

Instructional sex advice is wonderful in Christian books. But sometimes explicit crosses the line. In last week’s podcast, we read The Act of Marriage so you didn’t have to! And in this week’s podcast, we want to look at a broader theme about why...
We Read “The Act of Marriage” So You Don’t Have To!

We Read “The Act of Marriage” So You Don’t Have To!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 9, 2020 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

The Act of Marriage is the book I once drowned in a bathtub. When I wrote The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, I told the story of reading a sex book before I was married that turned me into a nervous wreck. It gave such explicit directions about what you were...
SEX and YOUR BODY SERIES: The Body Keeps the Score and Sexual Trauma

SEX and YOUR BODY SERIES: The Body Keeps the Score and Sexual Trauma

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 24, 2020 | Series

How does trauma impact our physical bodies–and our sexual lives? I’ve been wanting to read The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van der Kolk for several months now. It’s been highly recommended by so many who study and work in the field of sexual...
The Ultimate Flaw in the Book Love and Respect: Jesus Isn’t at the Center

The Ultimate Flaw in the Book Love and Respect: Jesus Isn’t at the Center

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2019 | Resolving Conflict, Uncategorized

This week we’ve been talking about how books like Love & Respect go so far off base. I started with showing how the view of sex in Love & Respect is very wrong. And then yesterday I showed how the concept of a wife giving a husband unconditional respect...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!