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Why Complementarian / Egalitarian Labels Matter: A Response to Nancy Pearcey

Why Complementarian / Egalitarian Labels Matter: A Response to Nancy Pearcey

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 15, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Do complementarian men make the best husbands? Last June and July I was really burned out. I had been engaging in a Twitter back and forth with Nancy Pearcey, the author of the new book The Toxic War on Masculinity. Her thesis is a simple one:  “The happiest of...
Jill Duggar’s Counting the Cost: When Christianity Has No Christ

Jill Duggar’s Counting the Cost: When Christianity Has No Christ

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 13, 2023 | Faith

I love Jill Duggar’s authenticity in her new memoir Counting the Cost. I love Jill Duggar’s (or Jill Dillard’s!) growth that she shows in Counting the Cost. I love how Jill models getting help when you need it. I love how she obviously struggled to...
PODCAST: Does God Hate Divorce? Plus the Women Carved in Ebony

PODCAST: Does God Hate Divorce? Plus the Women Carved in Ebony

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 8, 2022 | Podcasts

God cares about people that the church has often forgotten. Today’s podcast contains two different interviews that I’m personally passionate about, and I wanted you to hear. I came across both of these people on social media, was immediately intrigued, and...
Amazing News About Great Sex Rescue–The Tide is Turning!

Amazing News About Great Sex Rescue–The Tide is Turning!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good, Theology of Marriage and Sex

You guys! Guess what happened! Christianity Today actually covered The Great Sex Rescue–and it was phenomenal! A few weeks ago, just after we recorded the podcast about how the authors we critique have been either ignoring us or doubling down and saying awful...
A Book Review of Married Sex By Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta

A Book Review of Married Sex By Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’ve been talking about Gary Thomas’ and Debra Fileta’s new sex book Married Sex off and on on this blog and my podcast for the last few months, and there’s been quite a hubbub about it on social media. The book has also been largely panned in...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!