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If Your Church Makes You Feel Guilty and Miserable…Leave

If Your Church Makes You Feel Guilty and Miserable…Leave

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 4, 2022 | Abuse, Faith

Sometimes church is a toxic place.  Not always. Not even usually!  Study after study has found that religiosity actually helps people, and people who go to church tend to have better mental health, better relationships, and better lives overall. HOWEVER–and...
When Going to Church Leads to Worse Outcomes for Teen Girls

When Going to Church Leads to Worse Outcomes for Teen Girls

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 28, 2022 | Parenting Teens

On almost every measure, church attendance is good for you. Researchers have consistently found that religiosity is positively correlated with better mental health, better health overall, better relationships, and even longevity. BUT–and there’s a very big...
Keith’s Views on Deconstructing the Faith–and Reconstructing Something Healthy

Keith’s Views on Deconstructing the Faith–and Reconstructing Something Healthy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2022 | Faith

Sheila here! My husband Keith’s manifesto on Wednesday about how the evangelical church has treated women went quite big, and he has one more thing he’d like to say. This all fits well in what we’re talking about this month about putting the...
Poll: Women More Likely to Be Sexually Harrassed at Church than at Work

Poll: Women More Likely to Be Sexually Harrassed at Church than at Work

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 14, 2021 | Research

Do women feel safer at church or at work? Over the last few weeks the “lust” debate, for lack of a better word, has been heating up on Facebook and Instagram. I’ve been sharing that presenting the idea that lust is every man’s battle is...
Untangling Faith, Deconstruction, and My Story

Untangling Faith, Deconstruction, and My Story

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 16, 2021 | Faith

Deconstruction, as a term,  has become really complicated to understand. Rebecca and I talked about it in a recent podcast, and it’s one of those terms that is used differently by different people. But it boils down to this: You recognize that some...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!