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Can Complementarians Please Stop Using the “You’re Equal to Your Boss” Analogy?

Can Complementarians Please Stop Using the “You’re Equal to Your Boss” Analogy?

by Keith Gregoire | Mar 2, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Thank you to Zondervan and the book To Heal or Harm for sponsoring this post. My husband Keith and I talk a lot behind the scenes about the theology of complementarianism. It really bothers him that so much of the theology and arguments holding complementarianism up...
Revisiting Complementarianism and Authoritarianism in Light of Minneapolis

Revisiting Complementarianism and Authoritarianism in Light of Minneapolis

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 26, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Complementarianism’s “Equal but Different Roles” Hypocrisy

Complementarianism’s “Equal but Different Roles” Hypocrisy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 24, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

With thanks to Zondervan and the book For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post! Complementarianism has a big problem. For those of you who don’t know, complementarianism is the belief that God placed men in authority over women, in marriage and the church (some...
PODCAST: The Problems with Complementarianism in a Nutshell

PODCAST: The Problems with Complementarianism in a Nutshell

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 20, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Complementarians often use pretty words to obscure what they believe. They say things like “men are meant to be the protectors!”, or “men bear the burden of responsibility” or “we are all equal, but we just have different roles.”...
What Does the Defence of Slavery Have to Do with Complementarianism?

What Does the Defence of Slavery Have to Do with Complementarianism?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 27, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

with thanks to Zondervan and the book For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post. I remember the first time I heard a fellow Christian defend slavery. I was in my late thirties, and my husband Keith and I had been joking with “John” (who is now a pastor) about...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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