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PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate

PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 15, 2019 | Podcasts

Are yoga pants actually pants? Maybe that’s the wrong question! It’s time for a new episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all...
Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 24, 2019 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Summer is here, and many of us are heading to the beach! But what do you do if the beach is a minefield because your husband checks out other women? Some women have written in having this problem. Here’s one woman who says that whenever they’re in public...
LUST SERIES: Noticing is Not Lusting! We Need to Free Men from this Fallacy

LUST SERIES: Noticing is Not Lusting! We Need to Free Men from this Fallacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 22, 2019 | Series, Theology of Marriage and Sex

If you notice a woman is beautiful, is that a sin? Have you already lusted after her in your heart? If you read many best-selling marriage books, you’d say yes. If you notice a woman, then you’re tempted to undress her. That temptation makes you focus on...
THE LUST SERIES: Men are Visual, But Does That Mean That All Men Lust?

THE LUST SERIES: Men are Visual, But Does That Mean That All Men Lust?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2017 | Libido

Does the fact that “men are visually stimulated” mean that all men will struggle with lust? That’s certainly the way it’s commonly presented. We hear things like “Every man’s battle” talking about how the biggest struggle all...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!