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Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2022 | Abuse

What does it mean to be “unwilling” to have sex? We’re in the middle of a series on the blog about how to dig out of the pit your sex life is in, when one of you, or both of you, keeps digging that pit deeper. One of the big points I was making is...
When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Sex is supposed to be mutual and pleasurable for both. Your pleasure is supposed to matter. Unfortunately, though, we have a 47 point orgasm gap among evangelicals, meaning that 95% of men report almost always or always reaching orgasm during a sexual encounter,...
Daniel Akin, President of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Weaponizes 1 Corinthians 7 Against Women

Daniel Akin, President of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Weaponizes 1 Corinthians 7 Against Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 3, 2022 | Libido

If you think 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 is a command for women to have sex on demand with their husbands, you’ve lost the plot. And not just that, but you have no business leading an SBC (Southern Baptist Convention) seminary where future SBC pastors are trained. But...
PODCAST: Marital Rape, Consent, and the Problem with “Obligation Sex”

PODCAST: Marital Rape, Consent, and the Problem with “Obligation Sex”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 23, 2020 | Podcasts

What does consent mean in marriage? And is there marital rape? On today’s podcast we’re going to tackle a touchy topic. Two weeks ago, in our podcast about the book The Act of Marriage, we read the story of “Aunt Matilda”, who was raped on her...
Marriage Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

Marriage Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 22, 2019 | Marriage

We’re back in Canada! We had a wonderful time in England spending time sight seeing and also doing some genealogy research, but we’re also really glad to be back. But in the meantime, while I’m adjusting to the jet lag, I have SUCH a backlog of...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!