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Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2023 | Podcasts

If the heart is wicked and deceitful above all things, then aren’t emotions bad and not to be trusted? So often in evangelical circles we’ve been taught that emotions are bad. It’s logic we’re supposed to follow. It’s fact.  Emotion...
MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: 4 Things Christian Authors Need to Stop Saying

MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: 4 Things Christian Authors Need to Stop Saying

by Ngina Otiende | Sep 12, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We’re talking Marriage Misdiagnosis in the month of September–how all too often the evangelical church especially gets the problem WRONG when it comes to marriage, and then the solutions proposed end up making things worse. Last week we started looking at...
5 Reasons Christian Men Have Difficulty with Direct Communication in Marriage

5 Reasons Christian Men Have Difficulty with Direct Communication in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 11, 2021 | Connecting

Is It Way Too Easy for Your Husband to Push Your Buttons? Why We Get So Defensive

Is It Way Too Easy for Your Husband to Push Your Buttons? Why We Get So Defensive

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 8, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Anger is often a secondary emotion. So we need to ask: What’s going on below the surface? We’re wrapping up our emotional maturity series with a look at anger. Yesterday I was talking about how anger is like an iceberg; anger is the emotion that...
Handling Anger in Marriage: Understanding the Iceberg

Handling Anger in Marriage: Understanding the Iceberg

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 7, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

Many marriages are plagued by anger, and yelling matches or big angry outbursts. People will often say, “I have a temper problem” or “he has an anger problem.” As we finish up our series on emotional maturity, I promised to spend a little bit...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!