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Can Complementarians Have Great Sex?

Can Complementarians Have Great Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 1, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Is it necessary to critique complementarianism to help people have a better sex life? One of the critiques I get at Bare Marriage is that I’d be more impactful if we stopped critiquing complementarianism so much. I was talking last week about a big podcast that...
PODCAST: Let’s Talk Men of Virtue with Zachary Wagner

PODCAST: Let’s Talk Men of Virtue with Zachary Wagner

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 28, 2026 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

What is healthy masculinity? We hear a ton about toxic masculinity, and our guest today has written a book on Non-Toxic Masculinity before too! But what does it look like for men to pursue a life AS MEN but also as Jesus-followers? How do we figure out what it means...
Al Mohler, Women Podcast Hosts, and the Slippery Slope of Complementarianism

Al Mohler, Women Podcast Hosts, and the Slippery Slope of Complementarianism

by Keith Gregoire | May 27, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Complementarians often warn about the slippery slope of egalitarianism For the last few years, the Southern Baptist Convention has been trying to get rid of female pastors.  At first it was just about expelling churches that called women pastors. Now it’s...
Why Complementarianism Depends on Keeping Women in a Bubble

Why Complementarianism Depends on Keeping Women in a Bubble

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 26, 2026 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Complementarianism is threatened when women see there are alternatives. I’ve got some quick new findings for you today, and then some birthday reflections I had yesterday (took the day off to celebrate my 56th birthday, mostly by building new garden beds, which...
Why the Patriarchy-Egalitarian Spectrum Is Deceptive: Egalitarianism is the Middle!

Why the Patriarchy-Egalitarian Spectrum Is Deceptive: Egalitarianism is the Middle!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 6, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’m often accused of swinging the pendulum to the other extreme. Note: this article appeared on my Substack last week, and I wanted it here to to preserve it on my website! Plus I added some good stuff to it! I remember a commenter writing about how her husband was...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!