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Get Ready for Fixing! The “Fixed It for You” Workbook Is Here!

Get Ready for Fixing! The “Fixed It for You” Workbook Is Here!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 8, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Are you ready to do some fixing? I’m so excited to announce that today my Fixed It for You workbook launches! When The Great Sex Rescue was published, Rebecca gave me the idea to take some of the horrible things that evangelical authors and pastors have said,...
The Double Standards of Sexual Expectations in Marriage

The Double Standards of Sexual Expectations in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2023 | Sexual Intimacy

We need to deal with our double standards of sexual expectations in marriage. This month we’re looking at entitlement in marriage, and how the entitlement mentality can kill a marriage. One of the things we were talking about last week was that reasonable...
Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2023 | Podcasts

If the heart is wicked and deceitful above all things, then aren’t emotions bad and not to be trusted? So often in evangelical circles we’ve been taught that emotions are bad. It’s logic we’re supposed to follow. It’s fact.  Emotion...
Why Is a Christian Book Trying to Coerce Wives into Sending Nude Photos?

Why Is a Christian Book Trying to Coerce Wives into Sending Nude Photos?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 6, 2023 | Pornography, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Christian leaders should not be trying to convince women to send nude photos. This doesn’t seem like it should even have to be said, but earlier this week I put up a Fixed It for You of Gary Thomas’ and Debra Fileta’s book Married Sex, which had this...
Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2022 | Abuse

What does it mean to be “unwilling” to have sex? We’re in the middle of a series on the blog about how to dig out of the pit your sex life is in, when one of you, or both of you, keeps digging that pit deeper. One of the big points I was making is...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!