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Two Apologies That Are a Balm to My Soul

Two Apologies That Are a Balm to My Soul

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 26, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Apologies are wonderful to receive. And to be honest–I had given up hope that I would ever receive any. I’ve been calling out the harm of toxic teachings in the church for four years now, and asking the church to do what’s right. In return,...
What Our Research and the Thalidomide Campaign Have in Common

What Our Research and the Thalidomide Campaign Have in Common

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 23, 2023 | Libido, Research

What the Toxic Teachings We Measured Have in Common

What the Toxic Teachings We Measured Have in Common

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 3, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

There’s a thread that runs through the toxic teachings we’ve measured: Intimacy is a pipe dream. Now that we’ve done surveys with over 29,000 women, we can take a step back and look at the toxic teachings we’ve measured as a whole–the...
Complementarian Sexual “Asymmetry”: Can Sex Be Mutually Pleasurable?

Complementarian Sexual “Asymmetry”: Can Sex Be Mutually Pleasurable?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Denny Burk didn’t like The Great Sex Rescue because we thought sex could be “egalitarian.” Burk is the head of the Council of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and a professor at Boyce College at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He recently wrote...
Have Babies, Not Orgasms? Our Critics Say We’re Against Procreation

Have Babies, Not Orgasms? Our Critics Say We’re Against Procreation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 10, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Last week, Denny Burk accused us of being for women’s pleasure rather than procreation. Burk is the head of the Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, which defends extreme complementarianism (patriarchy), and thinks it’s of God. He wrote an article...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!