Can We Have a More Balanced Conversation about Oral Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Have you ever noticed that when we talk about oral sex in the Christian community, we usually frame it as something he wants and she should give? In that now infamous Edinburgh sermon that went viral, for instance, Mark Driscoll talked about how a woman should...

What Does It Mean to “Prioritize Your Sex Life”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 10, 2021 | Libido

I see advice all the time in both Christian and secular realms telling married couples to “prioritize your sex life.” And you know what? I agree! That’s why I’ve written three books on sex. (including 31 Days to Great Sex; I don’t talk...

Is Women’s Orgasm an Afterthought? A Look at What Men & Women Think

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 22, 2021 | Sex

How do men and women feel about the amount of foreplay in their marriage? Yesterday was a super momentous day at the Gregoire household, because Keith and I (and Joanna!) finished The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and sent it off to the publisher! Yay!...

The PODCAST Extras: The One Big Roadblock to Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 15, 2020 | Podcasts

With all the things that harm a woman’s chances of orgasm, does any one thing stand out? We’re in the middle of our orgasm series on the blog this month, and for this week’s podcast I wanted to elaborate on something I said in last week’s...

The ORGASM SERIES: What Sex Is Like for Women Who Never Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 13, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

About a quarter of women never reach orgasm, or very rarely reach orgasm, when they have sex with their husbands. Another quarter orgasm only sometimes. According to our survey of 20,000 Christian women, only 48% of women is orgasm reliable. During the month of...