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Can You Marry the Wrong Person? Why it Matters Who You Marry

Can You Marry the Wrong Person? Why it Matters Who You Marry

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 20, 2020 | Marriage

Can you marry the wrong person? When Keith and I started speaking at marriage conferences in 2004 and 2005, we were still using curriculum from FamilyLife USA. And the emphasis in that curriculum was in preventing divorce. I remember one of the major teachings was...
Let’s Talk “It’s Better to Marry Than to Burn”

Let’s Talk “It’s Better to Marry Than to Burn”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 12, 2020 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does 1 Corinthians 7:9–“it is better to marry than to burn with passion”–mean? I was blown away by the comments last Friday when we were talking about the gatekeeping phenomenon that many women feel, when we think that the boy is the...
Don’t Marry Him Just Because He Says He’s a Christian!

Don’t Marry Him Just Because He Says He’s a Christian!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2019 | Faith

Do we emphasize the wrong thing when talking about what makes someone marriage material? We receive a lot of emails from people in, frankly, horrible marriage situations. Oftentimes it’s an issue where sin or selfishness has been allowed to roam free for a while...
Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2019 | Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your fiance watches porn? Quite frankly, Porn destroys marriage. It rewires the brain so that what becomes arousing is an image, rather than a person. And it distorts people’s sexuality, so that we concentrate solely on the physical aspects...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!