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Safety and Intimacy: You’ll Never Have an Intimate Sex Life without Feeling Safe First

Safety and Intimacy: You’ll Never Have an Intimate Sex Life without Feeling Safe First

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 7, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

Without safety and security, a sex life can never blossom. In fact, a marriage can never blossom! Safety and security are necessary for intimacy. This month we’re talking about our 4-step plan for recovery from sexual problems in your marriage. These steps are...
Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 24, 2019 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Summer is here, and many of us are heading to the beach! But what do you do if the beach is a minefield because your husband checks out other women? Some women have written in having this problem. Here’s one woman who says that whenever they’re in public...
Why Every Man’s Battle Backfires: We Should Expect Men Not to Lust

Why Every Man’s Battle Backfires: We Should Expect Men Not to Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 20, 2017 | Libido, Pornography

Women, you are not living in a dream world if you want to be married to a guy who doesn’t lust. It is perfectly reasonable, and utterly biblical, to expect that your husband will not lust after other women–or at least will actively fight a battle with this...
THE LUST SERIES: Men are Visual, But Does That Mean That All Men Lust?

THE LUST SERIES: Men are Visual, But Does That Mean That All Men Lust?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2017 | Libido

Does the fact that “men are visually stimulated” mean that all men will struggle with lust? That’s certainly the way it’s commonly presented. We hear things like “Every man’s battle” talking about how the biggest struggle all...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!