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Start Your Engines: How to Initiate Sex with Your Wife

Start Your Engines: How to Initiate Sex with Your Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 31, 2019 | Podcasts

How do you figure out how to initiate sex with your wife–especially if she doesn’t seem that interested in sex? It’s podcast day on the blog today, and on the last Thursday of every month I run my podcasts specifically aimed at husbands (though I...
Reader Question: My Husband Wakes me Up for Sex

Reader Question: My Husband Wakes me Up for Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 21, 2019 | Abuse, Libido

If your husband wakes you up for sex, or starts sex with you when you’re asleep, is that okay? A reader sent me a link to a post that The Transformed Wife did recently where she was telling a woman that being woken up for sex when she didn’t want to be is...
Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2019 | Sex

Here at Bare Marriage we get a LOT of reader questions–especially about sex! We can’t answer anything personally, but Tammy (who goes through them all) does set aside ones that are particularly interesting, crop up a lot, or I haven’t answered...
Wifey Wednesday: When Your Husband Won’t Initiate Sex

Wifey Wednesday: When Your Husband Won’t Initiate Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 28, 2015 | Libido

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!