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PODCAST: 3 Ways to Talk about Libido Differences

PODCAST: 3 Ways to Talk about Libido Differences

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 27, 2022 | Podcasts, Research

We usually talk about libido differences in terms of high vs. low. Who has the higher libido? Who has the lower libido? And are these the best ways to talk about libido? In today’s podcast, we talk about two OTHER ways to conceptualize libido differences that we...
10 Things To Know about Hormones and Libido

10 Things To Know about Hormones and Libido

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 24, 2022 | Libido

How much of our libido is due to hormones? Hormones get blamed for so much–they’re like our own little personal punching bag. And it’s easy to think that all the jokes about hormones and libido are just exaggerations. But today, we we’re doing...
Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2022 | Abuse

It’s Time to Revisit Love & Respect! It’s three years ago this week that we launched our first series looking at the problems with the book Love & Respect. Since then we’ve received over 1000 stories of how that book made people’s...
PODCAST: Are There “Pink Brains” and “Blue Brains”? A Review of the Neuroscience Christian Authors Like to Cite

PODCAST: Are There “Pink Brains” and “Blue Brains”? A Review of the Neuroscience Christian Authors Like to Cite

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2021 | Podcasts

Ever heard Christian resources tell you that the male sex drive is something that women can’t possibly understand? That men are visual in a way that women never will be? That sex matters to a man in a way that it doesn’t to a woman? It’s all over our...
Communicating Your Perspective When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex

Communicating Your Perspective When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your spouse isn’t interested in sex? Often when I write about how to spice things up in the bedroom, or how to make sex more fun, the emails start to arrive: What do I do if my husband doesn’t want to have sex? What do I do if my wife...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!