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Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 19, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your husband doesn’t want to make love? That’s such a lonely place to be in a marriage–but it’s far more common than we might normally think. When we were conducting the research for our book The Great Sex Rescue, we asked...
Which Comes First, Sex or Friendship? The Chicken and the Egg in Marriage

Which Comes First, Sex or Friendship? The Chicken and the Egg in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 23, 2021 | Marriage

Sex and friendship in marriage can be a lot like the chicken and the egg. Do you have sex to build friendship, or does building friendship lead to more sex. The answer? Yes. Yes to both. That’s what we found in our survey results for The Great Sex Rescue, as...
Why Believing All Men Are Sex Machines Leads to So Much Rejection among Women

Why Believing All Men Are Sex Machines Leads to So Much Rejection among Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 15, 2021 | Libido

If we believe that men are insatiable sex machines who will want and need sex everyday, what happens when we marry and wives find their husbands are just human? This week, on our Bare Marriage podcast, we talked with Rachel Joy Welcher about her book Talking Back to...
Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 24, 2020 | Podcasts

It’s time for our men’s podcast–and this week we’re continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives–and questions to ask if you’re...
4 Reasons You May Feel Sexually Frustrated–Even When You’re Having Sex

4 Reasons You May Feel Sexually Frustrated–Even When You’re Having Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 21, 2020 | Libido

Do you feel really alone when your spouse rejects you sexually? We’re talking about libido all month on the blog, and I opened by talking about how to find contentment even if you’re the higher drive spouse and not getting as much sex as you...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!