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Where Can I Find a Good Counselor if the Church is Toxic?

Where Can I Find a Good Counselor if the Church is Toxic?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2024 | Connecting

Recently, I received a question from a reader about how to find a good counselor “I really need help knowing how to find the right kind of counselor. We have one but he is caught up in the traditional Christian stuff about men’s problems being lost etc. ...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 10, 2021 | Resolving Conflict

How do you find a good counselor when you need to seek help for marriage issues?  Sheila here! I found Sarah Allman on Instagram, where we interacted about the vital importance of vetting counselors before you go to see one. This is something I’d been...
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Next Steps after Reading The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2021 | Bare Marriage, Sex

If you’ve read The Great Sex Rescue, it may have opened your eyes to so much that’s holding you back. But where do you go from here? Sheila here! Today Dr. Camden Morgante, a clinical psychologist and good friend, is joining us to suggest next steps after...
2-Step Plan to Tell if a Book or Teacher is Safe and Healthy

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 22, 2021 | Research

In the evangelical church, too many of our books, resources and pastors spread messages that we now know are harmful–and we don’t have a way to stop it. Last year, we conducted  a survey of 20,000 predominantly Christian women to see if any of the messages...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 9, 2021 | Podcasts

In marriage, we’re not supposed to be unequally yoked. We tend to think of that as meaning that we shouldn’t marry unbelievers. But what if it’s more than that? In today’s podcast we do a little hip hop across different topics, because we had...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!