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Celebrate with Me! To Love, Honor and Vacuum is Now Bare Marriage!

We've finally made the move, and To Love, Honor and Vacuum is now rebranded Bare Marriage! Connor has been working on this for a few months now, and it turned into a much bigger job than we anticipated. I started To Love, Honor and Vacuum back in 2008. I started out...

Who Believed the Obligation Sex Message More in Your Marriage?

The "Obligation Sex Message" is toxic. The idea that a woman is obligated to have sex with her husband when he wants it was the most toxic belief that we measured in our survey of 20,000 women for The Great Sex Rescue--and our survey of men. On Tuesdays I don't write...

You Matter: Is the Pendulum Swinging Too Hard Towards Women?

As we're wrapping up the sexual confidence series today, I've been thinking about what the main message is that I want people to take away. For the last two months we've been talking about sexual confidence--what it is; what it's not; how to feel confident if you're...

The “Sexual Favors” Postpartum Podcast: Can We Please Stop Being Selfish?

Rebecca's postpartum! So we thought it was the perfect time to look at the postpartum advice given in evangelical circles to women. We found in our survey that sex lives can start to go off course with the way that sex is handled postpartum. Many people don't recover...

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Can Christians Use Sex Toys?

Can Christians Use Sex Toys?

Today I want to revisit a rather controversial topic. Except "want" is really not the right word. I'd love to run as far away from this one as possible. But I keep being asked about sex toys, and I haven't written about them in a long time, and my thinking has evolved...

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