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Is It Wrong to Be Attracted to the Person You’re Going to Marry?

Is It Wrong to Be Attracted to the Person You’re Going to Marry?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 5, 2024 | Preparing for Marriage

Is sexual attraction outside of marriage a sin? Honestly, this is a strange discussion, but I’m not the one who started it. Jared Moore, an SBC pastor, started a kerfuffle on Twitter last year when he said that even being attracted to someone that you’re...
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Is Kissing Before Marriage a Good Litmus Test?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 31, 2023 | Parenting Teens

Are we missing something if we save kissing for marriage?  One of the tenets of purity culture was that all physical contact–even kissing–should be saved for marriage. It wasn’t just that sex is for marriage. It was that kissing was too. Some couples...
Top 10 Ways to Get Turned On By Your Husband Again

Top 10 Ways to Get Turned On By Your Husband Again

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2021 | Sex

What do you do if you’ve lost that spark and you want to be turned on by your husband again? I thought we’d switch gears a bit today and focus on a question that I get from lots of women: they want to be turned on by their husbands, but they’re just...
Reader Question: Help! My Husband Has a Big Belly

Reader Question: Help! My Husband Has a Big Belly

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 27, 2017 | Sex, Sexual Intimacy

How do you have sex with your husband if he has a big belly? That may seem like a little out of the ordinary for a Reader Question of the Week, but it’s amazing how often I get it. Not to intentionally make a pun, but this is a big problem. When your husband is...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!