5 Ways Husbands Can Bridge the “Orgasm Gap”

by Keith Gregoire | Sep 18, 2024 | Making Sex Feel Good, Men's Corner

Hi, everyone! This week we’re talking about orgasm–because it matters! We spend a lot of time on the blog talking about where teaching has gone wrong and made our marriages and sex lives worse. But we’ve also created a ton of content, including...

What Do the “Obligation Sex Message” and the “All Men Lust” Message Have in Common?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2024 | Libido

What if there’s a thread running through obligation sex and normalizing men’s lust? Or rather, what if there are multiple threads? When we wrote The Great Sex Rescue, based on our surveys of 20,000 women, we identified four big teachings about sex that are...

Should Engaged Couples Commit to a Certain Frequency of Sex Once They’re Married?

by Shari Smith | Aug 16, 2024 | Libido, Preparing for Marriage

Does Sex Have a Start-Up Cost for You? Or a Major Cost?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2024 | Libido

When people say they “don’t want” sex tonight, what do they mean? We talked about this on the Bare Marriage podcast last week, but I’d like to elaborate on part of it today. I think we often get confused when people talk about this. They’ll say, “Well, sometimes...

PODCAST: Are We Saying Wives Don’t Have to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 4, 2024 | Libido, Podcasts

“So you think it’s okay if women just don’t have sex, then?” Whenever we talk about how sex should be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and that the obligation sex message is toxic, the reply we get is something along these...