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100th Podcast Episode! Let’s Talk What Makes Sex Dehumanizing

100th Podcast Episode! Let’s Talk What Makes Sex Dehumanizing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2021 | Podcasts

It’s our 100th episode of the Bare Marriage Podcast, and we’re a day late! I think this is the first time the podcast has ever been late. Figures, eh? We had some technical difficulties with the sound for half the podcast and we had to refilm. But...
Marriage Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

Marriage Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 22, 2019 | Marriage

We’re back in Canada! We had a wonderful time in England spending time sight seeing and also doing some genealogy research, but we’re also really glad to be back. But in the meantime, while I’m adjusting to the jet lag, I have SUCH a backlog of...
Intimacy Before Marriage: It’s More Than Just Sex!

Intimacy Before Marriage: It’s More Than Just Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 30, 2018 | Sexual Intimacy

I’ve written at length on the blog about why we should wait until marriage for sex, and why God made sex just for marriage. But sometimes I fear that in all of our talk about saving sex for marriage we forget that the biggest sexual temptation isn’t always...
10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2016 | Faith, Sex

Does the purity culture movement do more harm than good? Last week I wrote a three part series on vaginismus, when you experience pain during intercourse. And in that series we ended up discussing the purity culture in modern Christianity, and its potentially harmful...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!