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“But God Used David” Shouldn’t Excuse Abusers

“But God Used David” Shouldn’t Excuse Abusers

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 20, 2024 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

There’s been a horrible meme circulating about how God used David–so we should rejoice when God uses evil men. I’ve seen it myself; it’s been shared and debated in our Patreon group; and so many of you have sent it to me. While it does have...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 17, 2024 | Podcasts

We’re not going to end sexual abuse in the church until we confront its causes. It’s not just a matter of getting rid of abusers (they have a habit of popping up again in new churches anyway!).  It’s about figuring out the underlying contributing...
Feeling Responsible for Her Own Sexual Assault: A Youth Group Case Study

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2023 | Parenting Teens

I read a story about how a youth group culture contributed to a young woman feeling guilty about her own assaults. I’d like to share it today, because it fits in to everything we’ve been talking about with She Deserves Better, our new book that launches...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 8, 2023 | Parenting Teens

In his book Grace-Filled Marriage, Tim Kimmel blames a girl for her own rape. TRIGGER WARNING: Discussions of rape as a teen in the rest of this article. I thought today, for International Women’s Day, I’d like to look at what Kimmel said, but especially...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!