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Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 25, 2021 | Abuse, Parenting Teens

When research is poorly done, and then that research is used to “prove” something in Christian circles, everything can go awry. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be telling you some of the things we learned in our survey of 20,000 women last year,...
The “Watch Out for Boys Who Want to Push Your Sexual Boundaries” Podcast

The “Watch Out for Boys Who Want to Push Your Sexual Boundaries” Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 21, 2021 | Abuse, Podcasts

I believe that we can eradicate rape culture from the evangelical church. In fact, I’m committed to it! And in this week’s podcast we’re looking at how to do that. But first, some background. Today marks the beginning of our debunking series, where...
The Sexual Abuse Questions Podcast: Pointing to Recovery

The Sexual Abuse Questions Podcast: Pointing to Recovery

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2020 | Podcasts

Sexual abuse is one of the most damaging and traumatic things a person can go through. Warning: This podcast and post may be disturbing to people with sex abuse in their past, but we didn’t go into great detail about anything specific . God designed sex to be an...
Resources to Help Kids & Adults Understand Consent and Sexual Assault

Resources to Help Kids & Adults Understand Consent and Sexual Assault

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 24, 2020 | Abuse

In church, we simply don’t have a good working understanding of the importance of consent in sex. I think it’s because we tend to operate with the idea that women aren’t allowed to say no to sex, and that sex is an entitlement upon marriage. As we...
The Truth About Porn’s Role in Sex Trafficking

The Truth About Porn’s Role in Sex Trafficking

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 21, 2020 | Pornography

How is porn related to sex trafficking? We’ve been talking in the month of April in our Monday series on porn and how to recover from it. We started by talking about the effects of porn; we looked at 4 things you had to do if you spouse used porn, and then...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!