by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 1, 2022 | Podcasts
Can we have learned helplessness with sex? As we talk more about how to get your sex life out of the pit that one, or both, of you have dug for yourselves, I want to talk about a concept discussed in psychology called learned helplessness (which can also lead to...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 29, 2021 | Bare Marriage
As we’re wrapping up the sexual confidence series today, I’ve been thinking about what the main message is that I want people to take away. For the last two months we’ve been talking about sexual confidence–what it is; what it’s not; how...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good
There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2021 | Libido
I’ve often said that the higher drive wife carries a lot of burdens that other permutations of libido do not. It can be very difficult to be a husband married to a woman who doesn’t want sex, but at least that’s culturally expected. As a woman, we...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 25, 2021 | Men's Corner
What does a sexually confident man look like? Sheila here! We’re in the middle of our sexual confidence series. We began that series looking at the 3 characteristics of a sexually confident woman. Today on the blog I’ve asked my husband Keith to chime in...
