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SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: How Can We Get Over Embarrassment About Being Female?

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: How Can We Get Over Embarrassment About Being Female?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 20, 2021 | For Women

How can we feel sexually confident if we believe that our bodies are gross, objects of embarrassment, or something that makes us “less than”? For a woman to feel sexually confident, she has to feel that being a woman is a good thing, not a source of shame....
SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: Knowing that Sex is For You, Too

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: Knowing that Sex is For You, Too

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 12, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

One of the reasons women often struggle with sexual confidence is that we think that sex is something that we give to men. We think that sex is primarily a male need (after all, in Love & Respect, Emerson Eggerichs said, “If your husband is typical, he has a...
The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2021 | Series

Sexual confidence can sound almost, well, scary, can’t it? Like it’s something we can never really live up to. A sexually confident woman is someone who is totally okay with her body; totally orgasmic; totally cool telling  her husband what she wants in...
Men and Women Are Different When it Comes to Sex–but Thankfully It’s Not Because of Our Brains

Men and Women Are Different When it Comes to Sex–but Thankfully It’s Not Because of Our Brains

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2021 | Libido

Last week we were talking about how neuroscience does NOT say that men and women are different species when it comes to sex. Rebecca and Connor talked on the Bare Marriage podcast last week about how we’ve been told by many evangelical authors that neuroscience...
What’s Holding You Back from Great Sex?

What’s Holding You Back from Great Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 20, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Often what we think about sex gets in the way of great sex. We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, and we’re less than one week out from releasing our Orgasm Course! I’m so excited (though I still have a ton to do!). One of the things that...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!