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PODCAST: Are Soul ties Real? And is the Purity Culture Belief Harmful or Helpful?

PODCAST: Are Soul ties Real? And is the Purity Culture Belief Harmful or Helpful?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 29, 2025 | Podcasts

The iea of soul ties was commonly taught in purity culture. Basically, it boils down to the thought that when you have sex with someone, your souls are joined in the spiritual realm. If you have sex with someone that’s not your spouse, then, part of you will...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 1, 2025 | Podcasts

It’s time to answer some questions–and draw some boundaries! We thought we’d do a rapid fire Q&A in today’s podcast, and take some questions from the audience! So I pulled a bunch of questions from Instagram for Rebecca and me to answer....
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Last Sunday, a disturbing video went viral of a teen girl apologizing for being pregnant in front of her church. It was an Apostolic church in Virginia. After her confession. The congregation applauded, but then the pastor got up and chastised them, saying that no one...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!