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Is Kissing Before Marriage a Good Litmus Test?

Is Kissing Before Marriage a Good Litmus Test?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 31, 2023 | Parenting Teens

Are we missing something if we save kissing for marriage?  One of the tenets of purity culture was that all physical contact–even kissing–should be saved for marriage. It wasn’t just that sex is for marriage. It was that kissing was too. Some couples...
Are We Shaming Teens for Having Sexual Feelings?

Are We Shaming Teens for Having Sexual Feelings?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 24, 2023 | Parenting Teens

When you’re a teen, it’s normal to have sexual feelings. In fact, sexual feelings are a normal part of life for adults too! We have sex dreams (the content of which can sometimes be quite alarming). We can feel attraction to people. We can feel...
PODCAST: On Nice Guy Syndrome, and Boundaries!

PODCAST: On Nice Guy Syndrome, and Boundaries!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 13, 2023 | Podcasts

Have you ever heard the J.O.Y acronym? It’s supposed to sum up our attitude towards how we live our lives, and it stands for: Jesus first Others second You last This is very much what we’re taught in church–that we come last. Yet Jesus said that...
Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 10, 2023 | Parenting Teens

We had an amazing Theology in the Raw podcast with Preston Sprinkle. It dropped on Thursday, but I’d like to tell you about it, because we’ve never had this opportunity before to answer (friendly!) pushback about our views on modesty and consent. We were...
PODCAST: Should We Kiss Dating Goodbye? How Dating Affects Teen Girls

PODCAST: Should We Kiss Dating Goodbye? How Dating Affects Teen Girls

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 2, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

What dating rules work best for teen girls? We’re so excited that our brand new book She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self and Speaking Up launches next month! Until that launch, we want to take the podcasts to walk you...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!