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Reader Question: Do I Have to Have Sex or Do Sexual Things if Sex Grosses Me Out?

Reader Question: Do I Have to Have Sex or Do Sexual Things if Sex Grosses Me Out?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2019 | Libido

What do you do if sex is very distasteful, and you’d rather not be sexual in your marriage at all? Last Friday I wrote a post about how withholding sex in your marriage is not a good idea (it’s better to deal with WHY you’re withholding sex). And...
PODCAST EXTRAS: Postpartum, Vaginismus, and Why Does It Hurt Down There?

PODCAST EXTRAS: Postpartum, Vaginismus, and Why Does It Hurt Down There?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 7, 2019 | Podcasts

We just don’t talk about how relatively common sexual pain is. Today on the podcast Rebecca’s sharing about her really difficult postpartum experience (she had a bad tear, plus she has a bizarre hormonal rash), and we’re delving into how common...
How Do You Grieve the Honeymoon Years You Never Had?

How Do You Grieve the Honeymoon Years You Never Had?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 7, 2019 | Marriage

What if the honeymoon years passed you by, and sex was never good? How do you come to terms with the fact that you’ve missed out on something you can never get back? Over the month of October I’m going to be talking about the different stages of sex in...
10 Signs Something’s Wrong with Sex–and You Should Seek Help

10 Signs Something’s Wrong with Sex–and You Should Seek Help

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 2, 2019 | Sex

Sometimes sex goes wrong–and you really need to seek some professional help! There are times in every married couple’s life where the sexual part of their relationship is a little rockier than usual. Often it’s circumstantial–maybe you just moved, or...
Godly Sex is Mutual Sex: It’s Not Only About a Husband’s Needs

Godly Sex is Mutual Sex: It’s Not Only About a Husband’s Needs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2019 | Sex

When I was first married, sex hurt. And I felt terribly guilty about that. Have you ever looked back on your younger self and thought, “what in the world was I thinking? Why did I do that?” I have. And there are parts of me, deep parts, that I am still...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!