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Virginity Is Not a Synonym for Sexual integrity

Virginity Is Not a Synonym for Sexual integrity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 17, 2024 | Preparing for Marriage

Have we missed the boat on sexual integrity? I was hoping to do a series on honoring God with a new sexual ethic, but I overpromised. Keith and I have our marriage book due in March, and I’m frantically trying to write it, and I spent so much of Monday and Tuesday of...
Should You Get Married Because You Really Want to Have Sex?

Should You Get Married Because You Really Want to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 15, 2024 | Parenting Teens, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We Need a New Christian Sexual Ethic

We Need a New Christian Sexual Ethic

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 8, 2024 | Series, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What if the current Christian sexual ethic isn’t working? One of the big things to come out of our work evaluating the effects of purity culture is that our sexual ethic, the things that we taught teens about sex, is falling short. The way we’re teaching about sex is...
Is It “Better to Marry Than to Burn”?

Is It “Better to Marry Than to Burn”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2021 | Preparing for Marriage

I’ve often heard pastors say that the only explicit reason given for marriage in the Bible is that it is better to marry than to burn with passion. The context they’re quoting is from 1 Corinthians 7: Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good...
Has My Sexual Past Doomed My Marriage?

Has My Sexual Past Doomed My Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 17, 2020 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

If you’ve been promiscuous in the past, is your future marriage doomed? We’re in the middle of our Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor series this month, and this week we’ve been focusing on newlywed sex questions–including our newlywed sex...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!