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PODCAST: All About Orgasms–and Closing that Gap!

PODCAST: All About Orgasms–and Closing that Gap!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 19, 2024 | Making Sex Feel Good, Podcasts

It’s time to talk about orgasms! We spend a lot of time on the Bare Marriage podcast and blog talking about what’s gone WRONG in evangelical teaching. But we also want to teach how to make things go right. Four years ago, after we had finished our research...
Do Women Really Not Want Sex? Let’s Talk About The 90% And the 10%

Do Women Really Not Want Sex? Let’s Talk About The 90% And the 10%

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 26, 2024 | Libido

Does Sex Have a Start-Up Cost for You? Or a Major Cost?

Does Sex Have a Start-Up Cost for You? Or a Major Cost?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2024 | Libido

When people say they “don’t want” sex tonight, what do they mean? We talked about this on the Bare Marriage podcast last week, but I’d like to elaborate on part of it today. I think we often get confused when people talk about this. They’ll say, “Well, sometimes...
NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

NEW RESEARCH: Women Aren’t Turned On by Husbands Who Act Like Dependents

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 12, 2024 | Libido, Research

What happens to women’s desire level if their husbands don’t do housework? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new...
NEW RESEARCH SERIES: Is Sex Like Bad Ravioli?

NEW RESEARCH SERIES: Is Sex Like Bad Ravioli?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 5, 2024 | Research, Series

What if men and women experience sex differently? This month, our series on the blog is going to focus on some new studies that have recently been published in peer reviewed journals. We like keeping up with research, and we shared four new studies on the podcast last...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!