by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 11, 2023 | Libido
Can feelings of sexual obligation affect your libido long-term? This month we’re talking about obligation sex. We started last week by noting 10 things to understand about obligation sex, when I wrote the definitive post of everything that I tend to talk about...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy
When we’re trying to get out of the pit our sex life is in–sometimes we’re the one who needs to grab the ladder. We’re near the end of our series on getting our sex life out of the pit that one–or both–of us have dug for ourselves....
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 23, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex
You will never have a healthy sex life if you don’t have autonomy over your own body. You just can’t. Unless you are free to say yes or to say no, desire can’t build, because desire and obligation are at odds with each other. Just as you can’t...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 24, 2022 | Libido
How much of our libido is due to hormones? Hormones get blamed for so much–they’re like our own little personal punching bag. And it’s easy to think that all the jokes about hormones and libido are just exaggerations. But today, we we’re doing...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 5, 2022 | For Men, Libido, Sexual Intimacy
For every guy who has ever thought, “my wife hates sex,” or, even worse, “my wife hates ME,” I want to point you to some practical solutions. Usually I write this blog for women, but I do have a fair number of men who read it, and I get emails...