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Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

Why You Need to Work on Your Own Sexual Stuff

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

When we’re trying to get out of the pit our sex life is in–sometimes we’re the one who needs to grab the ladder. We’re near the end of our series on getting our sex life out of the pit that one–or both–of us have dug for ourselves....
Does 1 Corinthians 7 Say that She Has No Sexual Autonomy?

Does 1 Corinthians 7 Say that She Has No Sexual Autonomy?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 23, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

You will never have a healthy sex life if you don’t have autonomy over your own body. You just can’t. Unless you are free to say yes or to say no, desire can’t build, because desire and obligation are at odds with each other. Just as you can’t...
10 Things To Know about Hormones and Libido

10 Things To Know about Hormones and Libido

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 24, 2022 | Libido

How much of our libido is due to hormones? Hormones get blamed for so much–they’re like our own little personal punching bag. And it’s easy to think that all the jokes about hormones and libido are just exaggerations. But today, we we’re doing...
For the Guys: When Your Wife Hates Sex

For the Guys: When Your Wife Hates Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 5, 2022 | For Men, Libido, Sexual Intimacy

For every guy who has ever thought, “my wife hates sex,” or, even worse, “my wife hates ME,” I want to point you to some practical solutions. Usually I write this blog for women, but I do have a fair number of men who read it, and I get emails...
The What’s Killing Women’s Libido Podcast

The What’s Killing Women’s Libido Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 30, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts

It’s the wrap up podcast for our What’s Killing Women’s Libido series! At the end of the month we like to record a podcast that’s a little more aimed at men, and today we thought we’d wrap up what can cause women’s libidos to...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!