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The “Let’s Go to Dinner” Saga–and Why Women May Not Want Sex

The “Let’s Go to Dinner” Saga–and Why Women May Not Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 14, 2022 | Libido

What We Don’t Know about the Clitoris (And Other Parts of Women’s Sexuality)

What We Don’t Know about the Clitoris (And Other Parts of Women’s Sexuality)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 22, 2021 | For Women

Did you know that it’s only recently that medical textbooks have started getting the clitoris right? For years, the clitoris was shown as smaller than it actually is, and often the nerves and rooots were omitted.  The penis, on the other hand, tended to be shown...
SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2021 | Libido

I’ve often said that the higher drive wife carries a lot of burdens that other permutations of libido do not. It can be very difficult to be a husband married to a woman who doesn’t want sex, but at least that’s culturally expected. As  a woman, we...
A Romp through 10 Weird Things Victorians Believed about Sex

A Romp through 10 Weird Things Victorians Believed about Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 14, 2021 | Sex

We are continuing our romp through the ages with sex in Victorian times! Throughout the month of April I’ve wanted to look at how sex was seen at different periods in history, so that we could figure out how we got where we are now–and so that we could see...
PODCAST: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Sex

PODCAST: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 18, 2021 | Podcasts

What if women’s low libido is partly a self-fulfilling prophecy? What happens when women are told: “If your husband is typical, he has a need you don’t have?”, as Love & Respect put it. Over and over again, in our evangelical resources,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!