What happens to your marriage when you get dragged into fundamentalism? Tia Levings went to a flagship SBC church. She wasn’t supposed to get sucked into fundamentalism. But Tia ended up being stuck in an abusive marriage, trying to fix things by following advice from...
What if the way we talk about modesty makes it impossible to talk about vanity? When we spend so much time telling girls what they should look like and how they should dress, can we even address vanity? Or when we spend so much time praising women for being "smokin'...
Is evangelicalism filled with propaganda? I'm not saying that Jesus is about propaganda, but rather that evangelicalism, in its current cultural form, is filled with people using the Bible to prop themselves up and keep themselves in power. And seriously--it's gotta...
We're in a new season of our podcast--and we've decided to change the name! Well, really we're going through a rebranding process that I've been wanting to do for a long time, but couldn't because I relied on Google so much for my income (that's changed in the last...
Looking back on 2020 is humbling. It's been a tough year with COVID and plans crumbling and retreating into small bubbles, but on the other hand I've also written two books, created The Orgasm Course, and gotten so much done because I haven't been speaking! But on a...
Are wives called to unconditionally respect their husbands? Is unconditional respect a thing in marriage? This week's podcast is a little bit explosive--sort of like last week's on stumbling blocks and causing men to sin! We're going to look at why the logical...
I am very, very tired of the "don't be a stumbling block" argument when it comes to modesty for girls. I know that this is a very widespread debate, and I have talked about it before in two main posts: My 40% Modesty Rule Why Don't Be a Stumbling Block is a Really Bad...
Men can, and should, be emotional. And in today's podcast aimed more at guys (though women can listen, too), we're summarizing a lot of what we've said about emotional maturity and men in the last month. So listen in!Listen to the Podcast HereBrowse all the Different...
Is emotional maturity a female thing? (Hint: Nope!) And what does emotional maturity look like? In today's podcast I'm actually having a guest--Marc Alan Schelske, the author of The Wisdom of Your Heart. And then Keith and I are talking about men and emotions! Listen...
It's been a crazy week. We all knew it would be, and I know that many people are avoiding the internet right now. Plus I've had some health challenges again this week. As those who are on my email list may know, I had a horrible bout of vertigo that lasted for four...
What can husbands do to help their wives reach orgasm? It's the last Thursday of the month, which means it's time for one of our Start Your Engines podcasts, where we talk more to the guys. And today Keith and I are talking about the beliefs & attitudes that men...
With all the things that harm a woman's chances of orgasm, does any one thing stand out? We're in the middle of our orgasm series on the blog this month, and for this week's podcast I wanted to elaborate on something I said in last week's podcast. Last week I...
Please hear me: If you have trouble reaching orgasm, you're not broken! On today's podcast I'm being pretty darn passionate about this--you are not broken if orgasm is difficult. Do not give up hope! I talked about this on Monday, but I wanted to elaborate today and...
Sexual abuse is one of the most damaging and traumatic things a person can go through. Warning: This podcast and post may be disturbing to people with sex abuse in their past, but we didn't go into great detail about anything specific . God designed sex to be an...
It's time for our men's podcast--and this week we're continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives--and questions to ask if you're feeling sexually deprived. So...