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PODCAST: What the Unfairness Threshold Tells us About Marriage (And Mental Load!)

PODCAST: What the Unfairness Threshold Tells us About Marriage (And Mental Load!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 20, 2025 | Podcasts

What if there’s a Bigger problem in marriage than sex or money? We always hear that the two biggest issues in marriage are sex and money, right? Wrong. One of our findings in our matched pair survey for our new book The Marriage You Want (out March 11!) that...
PODCAST: Should You Choose Between Being a Good Wife and a Good Mom? And why Date Nights Aren’t Always the Answer

PODCAST: Should You Choose Between Being a Good Wife and a Good Mom? And why Date Nights Aren’t Always the Answer

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 13, 2025 | Connecting, Parenting Teens, Parenting Young Kids, Podcasts

Are you a good wife or a good mom?  And how do you prioritize your marriage? These are questions that are raised all the time in evangelical circles, and with Valentine’s Day coming tomorrow, all of this will be making the rounds again. How can you make sure...
PODCAST: The Marriage Hierarchy of Needs–and Why Compromise Often Backfires

PODCAST: The Marriage Hierarchy of Needs–and Why Compromise Often Backfires

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 6, 2025 | Podcasts, Resolving Conflict

If you’re in conflict, you just compromise, right? Well, not necessarily!  Here’s the thing: compromise only works if you’re starting from an even playing field. If one of you is bearing significantly more of the load for the relationship, then...
PODCAST: Why Teamwork Works Better Than Hierarchy

PODCAST: Why Teamwork Works Better Than Hierarchy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 30, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

When it comes to marriage, teamwork is associated with all the good stuff! Hierarchy, on the other hand, is associated with all the bad stuff. We explain today on the Bare Marriage podcast some of our biggest picture findings in The Marriage You Want, and how we...
PODCAST: Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Often Backfires–The 5-Point Faulty Foundation

PODCAST: Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Often Backfires–The 5-Point Faulty Foundation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 23, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I often get accused of just hating all evangelical marriage books. Surely there’s SOMETHING you like, Sheila? Right? Or are you just trying to badmouth everything so that you can sell more books? The critiques often go like that. But here’s the thing: It...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!