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Love & Respect Part 3: When Hurt People Hurt People

Love & Respect Part 3: When Hurt People Hurt People

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 18, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Pastors should not be writing books until they’ve dealt with their trauma. And even then, they shouldn’t write the book based on how they dealt with their trauma. They should write it based on peer reviewed research, because one person’s experience...
PODCAST: To Heal Or Harm–Making Sense of the Weaponized Bible Verses

PODCAST: To Heal Or Harm–Making Sense of the Weaponized Bible Verses

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 29, 2026 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Scripture can be used to abuse people.  But it can also be used to heal! Today Dr. Steven Tracy takes us through some of the most weaponized verses in the Bible against abuse victims, and helps us see clearly how these verses have been misunderstood and misused.  And...
Making Patriarchy Pretty: How Christian Social Media Sells Patriarchy

Making Patriarchy Pretty: How Christian Social Media Sells Patriarchy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2025 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex

The medium is the message. And when it comes to Christian patriarchy, the medium is super pretty right now! Marshall McLuhan, a Canadian sociologist, said that famous “medium is the message” line sixty years ago now. He was explaining how the medium that we hear a...
Are Girls Responsible for Making Boys Feel Less Lonely?

Are Girls Responsible for Making Boys Feel Less Lonely?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 11, 2024 | Parenting Teens

 Are teen girls responsible for helping teen boys fit in? There’s a disturbing trend I’ve noticed lately where, when a disturbed man goes on a killing spree, the blame is often put on the girls who wouldn’t give him the time of day. I wrote a few...
Is Divorce and Remarriage Permitted in Cases of Abuse?

Is Divorce and Remarriage Permitted in Cases of Abuse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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